Hello!
I seem to have really neglected this blog. Wow. I suck at keeping a blog. Anyway, I’m sure 2020 sucked for everyone. The beginning of the year started off with Kobe Bryant’s death. It completely changed, not just the basketball culture, but the whole world. A lot of people look up to him as an icon. There’s a little personal sucky thing for me, too. I fell into pregnancy again and gave birth to my 2nd son, Christopher on February 10. 5 days after I turned 27. With a newborn and my oldest as a new toddler, I didn’t know how to handle two little babies. Postpartum depression crept up on me and my little family was separated for half a year. What I mean by that? Let’s just say police and DCFS (Department of Children and Family Services) were called. It caused a lot of misconceptions and stories were thrown around. I managed to get the real story straight and they debunked the whole child abuse allegations.
But while I was working to get my children back, I discover therapy and it has been wonderful. I’m no longer an angry person. My therapist is like a friend who’s willing to listen. I also have been diagnosed of adjustment disorder. Google it if you want to know more details. It has nothing to do with postpartum depression or any general mental health issue. I also got closer to my biological family as I went back home to work on myself by court orders. Now I’m back home with my own family. Everything is fine. One of the best highlight for 2020. The whole world struggled with pandemic, fire, and earthquake. It is a lot. The other highlight is the Los Angeles Lakers receiving the 2020 NBA Finals champ. LA really needed that.
Well, that’s the update. Again, I really think this blog will have to be updated from time to time. But now, I have two children to focus on. I hope everyone is healthy and safe. Wish everyone the best!